Moving forward after infidelity
Infidelity, cheating, adultery, or an affair… these are all just different words describing an act that violates the trust and safety in a relationship. Important relationship cornerstones like love and respect are put under tremendous stress. The words describing the act may differ but the impact is always the same: devastating! The solid base of security that was once shared is now gone. All that remains is an unbearable sense of loss, helplessness, and grief…
In some cases, infidelity leads to an immediate end of the relationship.
In other cases, the partners conclude that even if this crisis has wounded their relationship, it is still valuable and worth saving. They decide that they can recover from this. Based on this decision they are willing to do the necessary work to heal the relationship.
Healing a wounded relationship is a journey that requires courage, devotion and effort. During this journey, the answer to the two following questions must be found: “How can I ever trust you again?” and “How can I affirm to you that I am worthy of your trust?”
Affair Recovery Therapy is an excellent way to find the answers to those questions.
What to do now that the affair is in the open…
Keep the lines of communication open.
Yes, I know… this may be very, very difficult in this situation. But realize that only by working together do you stand a chance of overcoming this situation. And, if you succeed in doing this, your relationship will be stronger than before. It may seem contradictory but at this moment you need each other more than ever!
Together you can save your relationship!
Yes, you can save your relationship!
Yes, saving your relationship is possible! Even after an affair or another breach of trust! Even if you feel like all hope is lost.
Saving your relationship may be possible, but it will not be easy. You both must support each other on the long way to recovery. To heal the relationship you both will have to take steps to rebuild the trust and respect that has been lost.
Affair Recovery Therapy
Are you committed to rebuilding the trust in your relationship?
It is hard to heal a relationship once it has been wounded. It is even harder to rebuild trust once it has been lost. It takes a staunch commitment to help each other overcome the breach of trust, the vulnerability and compassion to reconnect to each other, and a graceful willingness to forgive transgressions.
Are you a committed couple, willing to do what is necessary to heal your relationship and rebuild the precious trust that was lost, but do you find it difficult to move forward in your relationship? In that case, The Affair Recovery Therapy Plan may be for you.
The Affair Recovery Therapy Plan
The Affair Recovery Therapy Plan is a program specifically for couples who have experienced infidelity and are struggling with issues of trust.
This intensive program provides a safe and supportive space to address the deep emotional wounds caused by betrayal, enabling you to develop a deeper understanding of your own and each other’s needs and perspectives. During the sessions, I will guide you in working through healing feelings of hurt, anger and mistrust. But most importantly you will learn the necessary relationship skills to rebuild trust and intimacy and become a protector of your relationship.
Affair Recovery Therapy is a comprehensive approach, ideal for couples committed to overcoming the aftermath of infidelity and restoring a loving, secure bond. It supports you as a couple to find a path to reconciliation, forgiveness and renewed connection.
The Affair Recovery Therapy Plan requires about a year and a half of your dedication to learn essential relationship skills, put them into practice, and rebuild trust and safety.
This comprehensive plan includes:
- 13 challenging couple sessions
- 2 individual sessions (1 per partner)
- 1 dedicated after-care session
- Each session is a minimum of 90 minutes, ensuring ample time for meaningful progress
How to get started
If you are a committed couple and you are interested in the Affair Recovery Therapy Plan, then please schedule an appointment for an introductory session in my online calendar. This first meeting gives us the chance to get to know each other in a non-binding way and to determine whether we ‘click’.
During this first meeting, I will also further explain my approach and answer all the questions you may have.
Please know that before we can start the following conditions apply. Whatever the state of your relationship is at this moment, it must be free from:
- Domestic abuse or violence
- Substance abuse or addiction
Do you have any doubts or hesitations?
Are you willing to heal your relationship and rebuild the trust after an affair has devastated it? Are doubts or hesitations making it difficult to get the help you want? Don’t worry… This is understandable and OK. You and your partner may be feeling hurt, vulnerable and powerless. In such a state most people would doubt if Affair Recovery Therapy would even work and become hesitant about seeking help. Maybe the following link may give you some insights on how to deal with doubts and hesitations…
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